HOW TO REPORT TO THE POLICE W/ THE PERSON WHO OVER STAYED HERE IN QATAR AS TOURIST VISA FOR 10MONTHS?

DO Never help any illeagal activites.

i sometimes feel that giving too much help is bad for health.

Now it is clear for us. It's totally unique...the story and the person. I think you have done your part....and actually you have done a lot and enough. It's all up to her now. She really is having a bad attitude...she has done the wrong move and she committed mistakes. Still we can say that maybe because she's in total despair, for sure she's really frustrated...perhaps don't know what to do. But she has to cooperate. All the cooperations and coordinations needed....because this is all for her good. Whatever...she has to swallow her pride and plead to her previous company for her NOC. That will be the start for her.

On your part, stay calm. Dont think so much about it. Let her. Dont mind her. Dont even give anything. Dont support her for the meantime. But dont do any harsh move. Let herdo whatever she wants,...let her cry. If she doesn't have any options later on....she will come back to you. By then, explain to her gently of what she has to do. If she will not come unto you....you don't have any problem at all.

thanks bibo for the good advice but i think u need more help to manage ur attitude than me... the way you make advice it acted also your personality...anyhow thanks for your compliment...

take it easy....

let allah.. speak ....

good luck

good that u changed ur decision, now that u have already called the police they will have your number and keep tracking your calls and fidn out whether you are protecting her .. jus kidding ... but then it wasn't fair on your side to call the police.

Neer take any hasty decision out of anger moreover all are here for our own bread, so just do your work thats it.

Good work QL members, ur inspiring words have changed someones attitude.

Forgive and Forget......Life is too short to waste time on people like this!

this is the story start off...she come to our room to share with us but we dont know each other...then in one room we are 3 female...so me and my roomates go to work everyday but we wonder why shes not working she just staying at home all time..until she told us that she is still waiting for the application...then 2weeks after i told her my company is looking for document controller if u want come with em tomorrow at the office and i well recommed u...so she work with my company the next day after interview...then after 3days my company asking her passport and NOC...until 1week she did nto provide or give...until me and my company discover that she is cancelled visa w/o NOC and she come back here with tourist visa and overstayed already...and she asked my company to help her to pay her penalties for overstayed as tourist worth 12,000 riyals,,, i asked my managers to let her work and paid her penalties and later on it well deducted to her salary...until i decide that half of my salary i well give it to her with my other officemate i asked help to contributes some amount to cover up her penalties..so we agreed that we help her but she must provide NOC or asked NOC to her previous company...but then she did not provide anything and no any news if she can get NOC or no....so we try to call her previous company who cancelled her visa... and they told us that there company not giving NOC to anybody specially to her because her character are not good for her co-workers or office mate...she always make fight because she act like a manager to her co-workers as receptionist but then in fairness to her her company told us that she work very well..only she dont know how to be polite with officemate..she act like an arrogant always...

so my company decide to let her stop working first and let her worked out her NOC then come back if she have already NOC... so she did nto come back at my company because she cannot provide what my company asked her... but still i asked her salary for 1week at my manager... for her food allowance and housing allowance... but the thing is if she have money she spent it to some freinds to buy a wine and get drunk...then she dont have money to paid the room rentals and electric bills, and water.. until i started to look for someone who can help her... but she started to tell bad about me which is not true... and i started to get angry with her...so i told her to get out of our room because i dont like her anymore to stay in our room maybe if police checking its a problem for us also.so i told her to move out..so she transfer already room... until now she keep bothering me for telling all my friends that i am bad....that i am bitch,,,they must not keep friendship with me or call me...so i feel so bad and angry if some of my friends call me and tell me what she said to them...of course its normal that if we are angry we want revench right? but i know once u are angry and made a decision it well come out more mistakes someday!!!!sorry guys if i let my emotions flow to my blood cells!

Dudes,

Remember we are still human, possible of doing good & bad. Its a normal behavior of human being. JUST PRAY AND LET GOD FIRST IN EVERYTHING.

lynrendon...now guys in the room(QL) knew about your problem and situation...in my part, i understand your situation, but as they have mentioned earlier, your intention is not really good. Perhaps it would be better if you will rephrase it and ask the room again, of what you and the overstaying person can do to overcome with the problem. For sure you can be advised very well.

Tomorrow, start your day with a smile.

When you extend help to someone, don't expect something in return!

Dudes,

Let GOD decide for your roommate, doing a revenge is a sin. Remember Christ crucified on a cross with out crime done, he still forgive for those who did it. Anythings that you did for good of everyone will be blessed by God.

let it go mate

im sorry and thank you so much for all your positive advice to make me calm and think about it..of course if opposite things well happend and if i am at her shoes of course its really felt bad for hiding all time... but if i am on her situation i used to behave and make more friends not to fight with..i understand her a lot and i help her i try my best to help her...

thank you so much for guyz! im sorry if i act this way..i am really angry and upset after all i help her!

So really you couldn't care less that she is cheating the system and illegally staying in Qatar. You simply want to use the law to solve your personal problems with her.

Actually you are an accomplice to her crime, you know she is here illegally and have known for months but you failed to report it. You are harbouring a criminal.

I really think you should be ashamed of yourself, you are not trying to improve anything in the situation, you simpy want to take revenge on her.

Have a great day - and you have good reason to fear God!!

Think and act on something that will give peace in your heart.......what if , things happened the opposite...i mean ....how would you feel being reported for overstaying....?

if she did something wrong to you, its her mistake not yours ..so calm down.....

sleep well one night & think of this issue with a steady calm mood...Iam sure you will find a better solution.!

oh my goodness girl, are you sure you want to even go that route? As you said you are angry and it is never advisable to react in anger. Rather approach her out of compassion and mercy as any God fearing person would do, and maybe your actions will trigger a chain of events that will lead to her becoming more financially stable and staying here legally.

you need to manage your anger... calm down... you cant think of a better solution if you are angry. besides, you canno relieve yourself of getting involve in this matter. Lenten season is a time to reflect and medidate.

well i already inquire to the police.i made a call and they asked me only her mobile number thats all..and they are thankful for reporting this matters...well yes anger manage over me...but still i control i just inquire to the police but didnt yet give her simcard number...im still thinking about it..if she well asked sorry then i well not give to the police her simcard number...

oh...and in your profile you say you are God fearing??????

I understand your situation and your emotion but you cannot relieve yourself of getting involve on this matter - reporting your friend to the police who overstayed here for 10mos.

get anger management help!

your attitude is just sick